Monday, February 1, 2010

Mitigating communal conflicts

dear soul,blessings
how cammunal war controle in our area &universe tell me easy method we are accepting all valuable opinion it is more help full for universal peace activity
yours truely
shree c k p swami
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Swamiji,

Thanks for taking this initiative,
it is a need of the day in our state; Karnataka.

First Analyze the conflict - whether it is Budangiri, or bashing the girls in bars in Managalore or elsewhere, determine the source and motivation of such conflict.

Was the conflict real or imaginary?
Real conflicts involves affecting any one or all of the three elements; 1) one's space 2) one's sustenance [food and water] and 3) nurturance (loved ones who give us reason to live).

Imaginary conflicts?
You go to the bathroom and I go to the bathroom, when we meet back in hallway, does it bring conflict? That was a private matter between you and commode, just as you pray in a corner and I pray in the other corner, how does it affect either one of us?

You have got to get the parties sit down face to face and have a heart to heart talk.... its amazing what you find out in a majority of the cases. It usually is based on imaginary fears and phobias.

Our role, the role of religous people is to bring peace to humanity, it is achieved through mitigating conflicts and nurturing goodwill. We have to have the guts, to speak the truth and lead the people in the right direction - and not succumb to people who fund us or scream at us.

Best wishes, I will be happy to talk with you about the process in a particular situation

Mike Ghouse
A conflict mitigator and a Goodwill nurturer.

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